#18: Teaching Your Child Autonomy at a Young Age with Rae Pica

by | May 24, 2022 | Podcast

Parenting in the First 3 Years Podcast

Teaching Your Child Autonomy at a Young Age podcast episode


Parenting in the First 3 Years Podcast

#18: Teaching Your Child Autonomy at a Young Age

with Rae Pica


One of our goals as parents is to raise confident, independent human beings who can take care of themselves so they can one day leave home and start a life of their own. The problem is, today’s culture of gentle hands-on parenting is often construed as not letting your child make any mistakes, and doing everything for them. So how can you teach your child autonomy starting at a young age in a kind and supportive manner? What are some things you can let your toddler do on their own to help build confidence?

Rae Pica Podcast Guest

In this episode, I talk to early childhood consultant Rae Pica about ways to develop and educate your child as a whole by letting them take action on their own and make their own decisions and mistakes.

Author of 22 books, including What If Everybody Understood Child Development? and What If We Taught the Way Children Learn? Rae has shared her expertise with such groups as the Sesame Street Research Department, the Head Start Bureau, the National Association for the Education of Young Children, the Chicago Children’s Museum, Mattel, and Hasbro.

Here’s a glance at this episode…

  • [02:56] Autonomy for young children
  • [04:04] What a 2-year-old should be able to do on their own
  • [05:44] The consequences of doing everything for your child
  • [08:41] Children are born with resiliency and grit
  • [09:54] What can young children learn to do on their own
  • [13:00] The myth about playing with your kids
  • [15:09] Comparing your child to other children
  • [16:02] Logical consequences and allowing your child to make mistakes
  • [23:44] Myths about raising young children

Listen now!


Click here to check out Rae’s free resource library on play, literacy, fine motor skills, and more!

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One last thing. I spend time each morning in meditation and would love to pray for you, your child or whatever’s on your heart. Simply email me and let me know how to pray. It can be as simple just your name or you can give a short explanation. Either way you can trust that I will do it. It’s a simple, quiet way for us to connect and for me to support you on your parenting journey. 🧡




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I’m a child development specialist, parent coach and teacher trainer. I’ve cared for countless babies in child development programs, plus 3 kids, 4 grand babies and 5 foster babies! I LOVE babies and would come hold yours if I could. ❤️

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