My Newborn Essential List

what you really need for your newborn - the practical list of essentialsBecause I was a teacher and my baby wasn’t due until August, I had the whoooooole summer off to contemplate all of the many baby things to buy. And guys, there’s so much. So so much. I pretty much oscillated between being a mommy minimalist and a baby item hoarder. Some days I would wake up determined to buy something that for the past few months I had decided I wouldn’t need. It was a weird mix of consumerism and nesting.

Sometimes I would get stressed wanting to have everything we would need the second we came home from the hospital. But I’ll let you in on a little secret: Continue reading

Children’s Books About Death

File_000 (8).jpegSounds morbid, right? Who wants to read a story about death to their sweet child?? Though these types of weighty topics can be difficult to discuss, it is one of the precious responsibilities we have as parents and teachers: to help our children build mental constructs around all sorts of issues, including death. Death is a natural process of life that we all experience in a variety of ways, sometimes in unanticipated ways. Whether it’s the death of a close loved one, a pet, or even just an accidentally squished bug, children are not immune to the experience of death. Continue reading

The One Question About My Baby I Can’t Stand…

The one question I really don't like to be asked as a parent...Once you have a baby, all sorts of people talk to you about the experience. Stories, advice, and questions come from friends, family, and perfect strangers. In general, I love this aspect of parenthood. I love that children bring people together. I love being a part of the camaraderie of parenthood. Sure, I’ve been given my fair share of advice I don’t agree with and occasionally been met with disapproval of my parenting approach; but even those interactions I normally still enjoy. I see them as interesting learning opportunities. There is one question, however, that still gets under my skin. Continue reading

30 Encouragements for Any Baby (or Big Kid!)

30 encouragements for any baby or big kidResearch has shown time and time again what a powerful impact words have on outcome. Both positive and negative language have the transformative power to make situations better or worse. This is true for people of all ages and the effects can be found both from self talk and the language used around you. Positive language helps children to succeed and thrive.

Knowing this, I’ve sought to be intentional with the language I use around my daughter. I want to empower, encourage, and validate her. But I’ll be honest, sometimes it can be a stretch for me to find affirming statements when I don’t know much about her personality yet. She’s only 8 months old–her personality and ability to express who she is is still developing.  Continue reading

20 Developmentally-Appropriate Activities for 6-9 Month Olds

20 developmentally appropriate activities for your 6-9 month oldAs we’ve discussed before, play is a powerful part of childhood development. But it can sometimes be difficult to come up with ways to play with babies. We’ve looked at play ideas for 0-3 month olds and 3-6 month olds; today we’ll go through some play ideas for 6-9 month olds. But first, let’s take a look at what milestones your baby is working on during this time. Continue reading

12 Fun Activities for your 3-6 Month Old

how do i play with 3-6 month old

Last post we talked about playing with you 0-3 month old. Let’s skip forward a few months and now talk about ways to play with your 3-6 month old. You baby isn’t quite so sleepy anymore and is more engaged with the world around him. Lets look at what other accomplishments that your baby makes in this time period, which affects how you play with them! Continue reading

20 Ways to Play with a 0-3 Month Old

20 ways to play with your 0-3 month old

Play is a critical element to healthy childhood development. Through play, children are able to discover and understand the world. Play looks very different for children as they grow and change. Because infants develop so rapidly, their play experience changes rapidly as well. With their short wake time and limited abilities (vision, motor control, communication, etc.), it can be challenging to create engaging play experiences for 0-3 month olds. Luckily, we’ve got you covered with 20 different ways to play  with your 0-3 month old! Continue reading